Isn’t it strange how the things that are worst for us are often the hardest to let go of. It’s as if we get so comfortable in our pain and / or misery that we forget anything and everything that is or could be positive in our lives.
The truth is, amongst all the thorns we face on a daily basis, there are still so many beautiful roses. All we really have to do is take a second to admire them, enjoy them and simply acknowledge that they’re there. I’ve spoken a lot about positivity in my previous blogs but I’ve recently realized, more is required to overcome life and its challenges. Being positive is not enough, we actually have to believe, have faith and make the effort to make the positive happen in our lives.
I’m ashamed to say, I recently came to the harsh realization that I’ve allowed cancer become my crutch. Subconsciously I’ve been so busy waiting to die that I’ve neglected, well, everything about my life. Coming to this realization hasn’t been easy and I will admit, I tried to deny it for as long as possible. Now that I’ve accepted it though, it’s time for change, a whole lot of change. It’s time to start making plans, getting going and moving on again. 18 months down the line, I think cancer has taken enough from me and my life.
So many people have asked me what my goals are for 2014. Until now, my answers have all been things like, “beat cancer”, “grow my businesses”, etc. But since my recent shock to the system and the realization of what I’ve allowed to happen, my goal has changed. Now, it’s a simple phrase that I plan to apply to EVERY aspect of my life, “Just Do It and Do It Now!” it’s that simple. No more waiting to see what happens next, procrastinating on where my cancer journey is headed, just immediate action. Call it spontaneity if you will.
I’m excited, revived and for the first time in a very long time, I’m alive! I even did a Warrior race two weeks ago, that was something I never thought I’d do, with or without cancer. I loved it, I finished it… I did it… and it felt like heaven. There are so many things I want to do, so many places I want to go and for the first time, I have no desire to wait for anything or anyone else to do them with or for me, I’m officially on a mission. This journey is about to get a whole lot more exciting and I’d love to have you with me so stick around, I promise to be a little more active if you promise to walk, no, run, with me.
I think there comes a point where every one of us has to come to some kind of harsh realization in order to make the changes we are constantly longing for. I think we all need an intervention at some point in our lives. When will yours come? When will you allow yourself to make those changes, put in that effort and JUST DO IT?
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One Day At A Time